Meet the Parents Weekend

On Halloween Friday Oct 31st Vaughn and I drove to Gilbert Arizona.The purpose of this trip was "Meet the Parents" of the baby girl Collette is carrying as a surrogate mother. We arrived just in time to go 'Trick or Treating" with Maya and Ella.

The Green Faced Witch is me. I couldn't resist putting on makeup and costume in the car so that I could surprise them when they opened the door. Maya and her friend Joee were scared and ran crying for comfort to their mothers.I felt sad to see how afraid Joee was. Her mother, Trisha, talked and talked to get her to realize I was Maya's Grandma. She warmed up ovever the next two days and lovingly called me Grandma everytime she saw me. Hopefully there will be no lasting trauma for her.

Collette's girls were not afraid and realized quickly it was their Grandma. We had a good time enjoying great food and company at a Halloween party Tony and Collette gave for about 60 people Adam, Kris and Tiersa and Kris' parents Carolyn and Warren were among the guests.


Sunday, Nov. 2nd Collette and Tony hosted a Bar-B-Que for our family so we could "Meet the Parents", Michelle and Nigel Murtagh from San Fransico. It was definately worth the trip from Utah to meet them, to see their faces and feel their spirits. We loved them right away!!! We loved hearing their story. It is easy to see why Collette could not get this idea out of her mind after meeting Michele and hearing her story.
L to R is Maya,Tiersa, Vaughn (in background) Michele with baby Rushton, Nigel, and Adam's friend Shawna.



Jaycee in Michele's lap Collette and Ashlyn (in back)
Nigel said that their friends in San Fransicso are so excited for Collette to come Nov.13th for 2 baby showers because they want to meet the 'Angel' that would grow a baby for them. They are in awe that she would do this for them.



We loved seeing Michelle and Nigel with their hands on Collette's tummy waiting for their baby to move. Michelle was surprised to see how active her baby is and asked," Does she move this often usually or does she just move 3 or 4 times a day?

The next day they watched their little baby (on ultra sound) open her eyes, yawn and put her little arms behind her head with fingers laced almost as if she was lounging in a lawn chair. They were simply thrilled. Michelle said, "I just can't wait to meet my baby, is that normal?" The name they like best so far is Grace. "Grace's" heart, brain and body seemed to be perfectly formed and now she is just going to gain weight and get strong for delivery around Feb. 1st.

It was a great trip. Now we can picture where Adam lives in his new apartment in Scottsdale, have great memories of seeing the kids in their Halloween costumes, saw our wonderful children and their spouses and met Michele and Nigel AND we had a great visit with each other on the way back home.